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Embrace Positivity by Letting Go of These 5 Habits
In the journey towards a brighter and more positive life, it's essential to identify and eliminate habits that foster negative thinking.
Focus Point
Some things are better off ignored than attached. Attention is the oxygen of conflict. When you fight a problem, you breathe life into it. When you starve a problem of your attention, you suffocate it.
Embrace Positivity by Letting Go of These 5 Habits
Notes taken from Stephanie Vozza on fastcompany.com

In the journey towards a brighter and more positive life, it's essential to identify and eliminate habits that foster negative thinking. Negative thoughts can easily become a roadblock to personal growth and happiness. By recognizing and altering these patterns, you can pave the way for a more optimistic and fulfilling existence.
Comparing Yourself to Others
When we constantly measure our worth against others, we overlook our unique qualities and accomplishments. Instead of dwelling on what you lack, focus on your progress and individual journey. Celebrate your achievements, regardless of how small they may seem.
Overthinking and Dwelling on Mistakes
Endless rumination over past mistakes can lead to a cycle of negativity. Acknowledge your errors, but also understand that they're stepping stones to growth. Instead of fixating on blunders, channel your energy into learning and moving forward.
Surrounding Yourself with Negativity
The company you keep significantly influences your mindset. Distance yourself from individuals who consistently exude pessimism and criticism. Surrounding yourself with positivity and supportive people can uplift your spirits and help you maintain an optimistic outlook.
Fearing Failure
The fear of failure can be paralyzing and hinder your progress. Instead of letting this fear hold you back, view failure as a stepping stone to success. Embrace failures as valuable lessons that provide insights into areas for improvement. This mindset shift can cultivate resilience and a more positive attitude.
Unrealistic Perfectionism
Striving for perfection can create an unattainable standard, leading to constant dissatisfaction. Instead of fixating on flawless outcomes, focus on doing your best within realistic boundaries. Understand that imperfections are natural and can contribute to growth and innovation.
Key Takeaways
Cultivating a positive mindset involves conscious effort and self-awareness. By recognizing and eliminating these five negative habits—comparing, overthinking, negativity, fearing failure, and perfectionism—you can pave the way for a brighter and more fulfilling life. Remember, it's okay to stumble along the way; what matters is your commitment to growth and your ability to foster positivity. Embrace each step of your journey, celebrating your successes and learning from your setbacks.
Coaches Questions
Q: How do you prioritise and manage your time?
A: Every Sunday I sit down with a planner and look at the week ahead. This allows me to determine and record my daily non-negotiable blocks that will be protected for "self-work". This gives me clarity and certainty for the week ahead that I will prioritize my own growth, as well as direction to ensure that I am working on only those things which move the needle toward my goals.
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